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How to Build a Support System When You’re Doing It Alone
Your village may not be traditional — but you can have one
Kiera Jacobs
June 05, 2025
Hey Momma, Being a single mom can sometimes feel like you’re doing life in a silo, especially when you’re the cook, cleaner, bottle washer, chauffeur, coach, counselor, tutor, etc. for your family. But no one should have to do it all alone. Building a strong support system—your very own village—can make all the difference in balancing life’s demands and finding the encouragement you need. |  |
Feeling Isolated Without a Strong Support Network
Many single moms feel the weight of carrying it all on their shoulders. When you don’t have the benefit of nearby family or close friends, even simple tasks like grocery shopping or attending a parent-teacher meeting can feel overwhelming. The lack of a solid support system can leave you feeling exhausted, lonely, and unsure where to turn for help.
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Practical Steps to Build and Nurture Your Support System
Here are actionable and budget-friendly tips to help you connect with other moms, local resources, and communities that care:
Start Close to Home
Reconnect with Friends and Family: Sometimes, support is closer than you think. Reach out to friends or relatives that have proven to be safe and trustworthy, and let them know you could use their help.
Safe Neighbors and Community: Introduce yourself to neighbors if you haven’t already. Simple gestures like offering to swap babysitting duties or sharing a meal can spark lasting connections.
Join Local Parenting Groups
Community Centers: Many community centers host free or low-cost parenting meetups, playgroups, or mom’s night out events.
Library Storytimes: Public libraries often host storytime sessions for kids. It’s a great way to meet other moms while your children enjoy a fun activity.
Faith-Based Organizations: If you’re part of a faith community, inquire about support groups or volunteer opportunities to meet like-minded people.
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